My friend has changed his privacy settings, and I still cannot see him on the app.
For your friend’s changes to be updated on your app please restart the app. Your app checks these settings each time it starts.
I’ve just added a friend to my phone contacts but he is not showing
DearReal checks your contact settings and friends each time it starts. For your new contacts to show on the app, you need to restart the app.
We are both members but cannot see each other on the app
DearReal offers a wide range of privacy settings so that everybody can feel at ease. If both users choose their matchmakers individually in their contacts and are only visible to them (our most private configuration), they won’t be visible to each other. While this can limit ease of use in some situations, we will always…
What does Premium give to Matchmakers only?
Users who are on DearReal only to matchmake don’t have Premium options. These perks are only possible with a single profile. Thank you so much for helping your single friends date safely!
Who will see my Premium status?
Your Premium status only shows when you have Extended Reach activated to the people who would not be able to matchmake you or ask to be introduced to you without it. So your Premium status does not show to other Premium users. For Daters Your single friends, who can now matchmake you without their Friends…
How do I report abusive behaviour or block a user?
Each profile on the app has three dots at the bottom right. Please tap the dots on the profile you wish to block or report.
Is DearReal LGBTQI friendly?
We are surprised each time we get this question?!? Definitely yes. DearReal wants to help all. LGBTQI need the same genuineness, safety, confidentiality as everyone else. We think some of our confidentiality features will be relevant to people who are not 100% out. We are unhappy with a lot of DearReal features we would like…
What is the difference between a Friend and a Contact?
A Friend is a user that is already on DearReal while a Contact is a user that is in your contacts but not on DearReal yet. You can Introduce and Vouch for Contacts as you would with Friends. These will show once they join DearReal. Your contacts show on your app while they do not…
Abandon all hopes of privacy?
We have identified three major problems with dating apps and are keen to solve them with you. Safety; the relative anonymity dating apps offer encourages users to behave crazy and all sorts of psychos to join. Thanks! Lying; users can’t resist embellishing their profile, falling into a slippery slope of time wasted and deception instead…